Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Flagstone Patio DIY Instructions

Introduction:

During the summer of 2016, my wife and I decided to create a flagstone patio for our back porch. After several hours of research, design, and work, we created the patio as seen below in figure 1. The final product was a 200 square foot limestone patio with a base of granite gravel, a layer of sand, and the joints filled in with crushed granite. The total cost of materials was right at $1,000, and the time spent on the project was 3 weeks. I wrote the following set of instructions to provide readers with a step-by-step guide to follow in case you want to build something similar. I should note that I have no background in building patios; my degrees are in technical writing, not engineering or landscape architecture. As always when doing home projects on your own, you should do your own research and consult with local experts to ensure that your patio is guided by professionals.

Figure 1: Finished Patio

1) Research patios.

There are several types of patios. Here are some basic differences, based on materials:
  • The foundation is either on sand (dry-laid) or on a concrete foundation (wet-laid). We decided on a dry-laid foundation, since we don't have a current concrete foundation. 
  • The patio can consist of concrete pavers or flagstone. We chose flagstone because it is prettier, but much more complicated to level and design. It added a significant amount of time to our project.
  • The joints can be filled with sand, crushed granite, jointing sand, or concrete. We chose crushed granite since we wanted it to be heavier and stronger than sand, but not as permanent as jointing sand or concrete.
Remember that each of these types has its strengths and weaknesses. For example, concrete pavers are easier to level, but not as attractive. Or sand is easier to work with into joints, but can be easily moved by ants. For more help with researching patios, there are dozens of types of DIY (do-it-yourself) instructions for building patios and explaining these strengths and weaknesses. We relied heavily on The Home Depot's excellent guide (their materials list is extremely helpful) and several hits that came up in Google. 

The most important part of researching was finding someone that we trusted to help us. My wife and I visited three local landscape companies and stone masonry supply stores. The first two were unhelpful, but we found a company owned by a woman named Cindy who has been selling stone and building patios for a number of years. She was most helpful in providing us with materials, delivery, and information. Having a professional's phone number became important at several moments in our project.

2) Purchase materials.

We decided on a 200 sq. ft. patio. I wanted less; my wife wanted more. So we compromised. We ended up purchasing:
  • 2 tons of limestone flagstone (one full pallet and part of another). See figure 2. The thickness of each stone varied from half and inch to nearly 2 inches, and total, we had 250 pieces to work with. We tried to use the thickest pieces possible, and we ended up using 200 of the best pieces.
  • 1 cubic yard (27 square feet) of base material and 1.5 cubic yards of sand. All together, this provided a three inch foundation for our 200 square foot patio. 
  • 200 square feet of landscape fabric to help with weed prevention.
  • 1 can of flagstone sealer.
  • 40 feet of metal edging and stakes.
All of these supplies were delivered for $150. We didn't have a truck, so the company placed all the materials on our front driveway.

We also had to buy several tools, such as a hand edger (described below), shovels, a tamper, and a four foot level.


Figure 2: Purchasing Materials from a Local Masonry Supply Store


3) Outline your patio.

This is a fun step. Using something that is flexible (string, a garden hose, or a metal border), draw a rough draft of your patio. Remember that it needs to have about a 1 degree drop to ensure proper drainage during heavy storms. My ground was already at a 2-3 degree slope, so I didn't have much to worry about. A four foot level helps immensely.

Figure 3: Outline of Patio

4) Look underground.

Ensure that you haven't blocked access to underground utilities, such as electrical, gas, or sprinkler lines. We had to cap one of our sprinkler heads with a PVC cap, and we re-positioned another so that it didn't water our patio.

5) Excavate the soil.

Most people recommend digging down multiple inches, as few as 3 to as high as 12. A good median is around 8 inches, 3 for a base and 3 inches for sand, and a couple of inches for the stones. Two factors decide how deep you should go: drainage and freezing. We live close to a desert in Texas, where the average rainfall is about 20 inches, and the average low in January is still above freezing. Because we don't receive huge amounts of rainfall or significant deep freezes, we decided on excavating approximately 4 inches. We ordered 1 yard of a base layer of granite gravel, and 1.5 yards of a sand layer. When spread over the 200 sq. ft., the base and sand layers equaled 3 inches of depth. This depth is much less than the average, but we also talked with a local company that creates flagstone patios, and this is what they recommended, as well. With the average flagstone being about 1 to 1.5 inches deep, we excavated just enough so that the patio was level with our 4 inch metal edging.

I recommend renting a sod cutter from The Home Depot. For under $100 for a day, you can have a machine that excavates the top layer at a maximum depth of 2.5 inches. If you use a sod cutter, be aware that you'll need a truck to haul it, and you'll need some friends who are strong; the machine weighs 300 pounds.When we decided to rent a cutter, the machine was broken, so we decided to excavate the sod by hand using a hand edger. It took several days, and I hurt my foot pushing this tool into the soil over and over again. But all in all, it was worth it. The edger went 4 inches deep, rather than 2.5.

After excavating, be sure to level the soil with a rake. Then, tamp down the soil with a tamper.

Figure 4: Excavating the Soil 

6) Lay the foundation.

Begin by installing the edging. We used metal edging, purchased from The Home Depot. We wanted something that was flexible, since we wanted several curves to our patio. We used metal stakes and a hammer to lock each edging piece into place.

Then, we laid the fabric on top of the soil, and we dumped three layers of rock and sand: 1) We dumped over an inch of crushed granite for the base layer on top of the fabric. See figure 5. Then, we cut the fabric to shape and tamped down the granite. After the granite, 2) we placed about an inch of sand on top of the granite and tamped it down and watered it heavily. Then, 3) we placed another inch of sand on top of the first layer (no tamping!). All the rocks have uneven sections on the base, so the final loose layer helps ensure that all the crevices are filled with sand. All of this step took about 1 full day.

Figure 5: Installing the Foundation

7) Lay the flagstones.

For us, this was by far the most difficult part and the most time-consuming step. We did this project during the summer, when daytime temps were hitting over 100 degrees, so we could only work in the late evening from around 6 to 9. It took us over a week to lay and level all the stones.

I took this part in two stages: 1) I would piece together a small section of about 10 stones, and then 2) I would install each one individually. The most tedious aspect was trying to level each stone. Each stone has to be leveled with all the stones around it; it has to not rock or move when weight is applied; and it has to have a drop of at least 1 degree (our patio has about a 2-3 degree drop) for rain run-off. All of this meant that some parts of the patio are not perfectly level. I was somewhat OCD about each stone at times, which is partly why it took so long. Even then, my wife still found places that were not quite level. Use a rubber mallet to hit each corner of the stone to make sure it is level. I found that placing a bit of dry sand on the stone helped me determine if the stone was level: the more the sand shook and bounced with a hit of the rubber mallet, the less stable it was. It also helps to wet the sand a bit so that it holds its shape better. Use the handle of the mallet to pack wet sand around all the exposed edges to make sure it is stable. Then, move on to the next piece.
Figure 6: Nearly Halfway Done
My best advice is to start in one corner and work outward, using the larger pieces toward the edges for better stability. At times, I would mistakenly start to enclose sections (seen in the upper left of figure 6), and it would be nearly impossible to find pieces that correctly fit in a pre-defined area. The more sides you leave yourself open (always leave 2 sides open), the easier it is to work with the stones.

Leave as much or as little space between the pavers as you want. I wanted a more compact look, so I had anywhere from no space to up to an inch in places.

I didn't have much luck chipping the rocks with a hammer. I could chip small pieces off to shape the rocks that didn't quite fit, but I had no luck with breaking large sections off of big stones. The limestone lays horizontally, so each chip would break a top or bottom layer off, but never both. For chipping, use the corner of the hammer, and lightly tap to break.

Figure 7: Almost Finished!


Step 8: Place crushed gravel between the joints.

My wife and I debated and researched the different types of jointing materials for quite some time. We initially planned on sand, because we had an abundance of it already, and we liked how easy it was to work with. Later, we nearly used polymer jointing sand (which is a sand with glue) to hold it together; the reviews are usually polarizing - some say it works well to as a type of near-concrete, and others say it was the worst decision they made. The other option is concrete. We never selected concrete since it will crack as the stones shift during freezes and rains. We eventually chose crushed granite because we wanted something in-between the light weight of the sand and the permanency of the jointing sand/concrete. I'm happy with the choice. It bonds well when watered, and it made the patio quite stable.

We placed most of the larger pieces of granite at the base of the joints, and then filled in the top with the smaller particles by moving it around with a broom. Make sure to water it to settle the granite.

Conclusion:

We are very pleased with the final result. See figure 1 at the top of the article. We've already used our ping pong table on the patio several times, and we grilled out chicken and hamburgers with some friends within a week of finishing. It is still settling, but I'm quite happy with the final result. Also, we still need to seal the stone, but we are waiting for a big rain to help settle the base layers and clean off the stone. And during July in Texas, it never rains, so we may be waiting for a while.

Oh, and it pays to have good help. Her official title was Apprentice Holder, Unpaid Internship. See figure 8.

Figure 8: Helpers





Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Pregnancy: Leave of Absence

Baby at 20 Weeks
I'm back. I apologize for taking leave since, well, it looks like December 19, 2013. But really it was a few months earlier when I stopped blogging. I had several blogs in a row scheduled to go out automatically.

Here's the reason for my departure: I stopped blogging because I was feeling a little out of control. And I hate being out of control.

I pride myself on being a hard worker. Usually hard work, and nothing but hard work, creates success for me. I may not be the most brilliant or talented one in the room, but I do the research, ask questions, and complete work while following the rules and recommendations of others. In school, especially college, I was always the group leader. I knew how to get that A even if someone got sick or someone wasn't a great presenter. I'd take on the work of several people to get us to the finish line. Nothing could stand in my way (or our way in terms of the group). I had a plan for success.

I had anything but success for about three years while my husband and I tried for kids on our own. I had a second very early miscarriage, we lost two grandparents all in the span of one year, and we had a personal crisis in terms of the direction our lives were going.  And that's when I stopped blogging. We needed to regroup.

Below is my husband's poem on the matter that I think encapsulates all the emotions we were feeling.

Atonement

Last week, three students presented their reports on teen pregnancies.
I heard that they are out of control
Babies having babies
And we should keep it in our pants, one guy says.
Blame sex education, a girl says.
The statistics are ridiculously high, says a third.

You want statistics?
Make love to a cup
And spill 15 million sperm
When the norm is 60-200 million.
Track basal body temperature
And pull apart the mucus
Stringing it out like eggs
Peeing on sticks
To find
28.2 day cycles
Ovulation on day 14.
Have sex on demand
For 33 months
Take a whole bottle of zinc pills
And choke down the giant folic acids.
Try not to read the local hospital advertisement
“Delivering precious cargo”
Transforming a baby into a technological artifact;
Place the order and wait
The package will arrive
As scheduled.
Write an email to your parents
And type out “miscarriage” in the subject line
The package was dropped.
Name it Bill. John. Ava.
Does it matter?
I called her Lucy.
That’s my favorite.
And I always wanted a girl.
Hear the churchgoers say “relax”
Learn yoga.
Renovate a bathroom.
Pretend that you don’t have an empty bedroom
And a crib in the attic.
Visit my sisters
And my four nephews and one niece.
It feels like more
And more on the way.
Everyone calls them blessings
From the Lord.
Gifts bestowed on all
The obese couple at the basketball game
The divorced couple down the street
The student athlete’s girlfriend puking in the bathroom.
Read the scripture:
What father would give bad gifts to his children?
And invert it.
What father would deny me the gift of being a father?

Look, now, at the red lump of tissue
Sunk to the bottom of the toilet bowl
The life-giving blood
Dead. Or dying.
I touched it with a straw to be sure
Trying to draw Lucy back to me.
Feel my wife grabbing me,
Pulling me close as we were atoned
Before the sun was even awake.

Moving Forward

I hate to dwell on that period of time too much. We had three years of dwelling and we still worry more than we should when the days get tough or we take another medical test. Now, I want to focus on the fact that we're pregnant. We've been blessed with a little one who is currently growing in my tummy as I type (see the latest sonogram above). Baby G is due October 12, 2015. We had some wonderful help from the folks at the Fertility Center in San Antonio. If we had known making a baby was that easy (relatively speaking), we might have seen them a year earlier (although I'm sure everything worked out the way God wants it to be). They are world renown. I highly recommend them! Let me know if you want their contact information.

In the beginning there was...sound. Baby G is currently learning to hear. We're playing music, talking, and reading books to baby G. She's also been kicking up a storm. She loves movement, so when I'm not moving, she is. And sometimes she wants to move with me. I think she likes doing dishes, which is great. She can help later on. :) And, if you haven't gathered, Baby G is a girl. We're start finalizing names. It's exciting times!

Also, I'm going to start blogging again regularly. Some of it will be about being pregnant and others about my Allergic to Sitting hobbies and ideas like before. My creative juices are flowing, and I'm ready to share.

Welcome if you are new to my blog, thank you all for giving me another chance to share with you if you're an old fan, and also bless you for being supportive if you knew of our struggles.

God bless!

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Craft: Ruffle Tree Skirt


It's getting closer to Christmas, so I thought I'd take on a sewing project for the holidays. The Assessor and I purchased a spectacular tree several years ago when we moved into our house, but we went with the cheapest of the cheap tree skirts to just get by. We are now just getting by no more!

Thanks to some research on Pinterest (to maintain my dignity, won't tell you how many hours I spend pinning) I found several examples of tree skirts that I wanted to steal ideas from. You can see several of them on my Holiday and Gift Ideas Board (just scroll down a bit). 

I settled on making a sewed ruffle skirt. However, most of the ruffled version I found were "no-sew," quick versions. Don't get me wrong! I love no-sew and quick, but I also like machine washable. So I decided to follow the Pinterest versions general plans, but hem all the fabric so they wouldn't fray in the wash.

Here're the steps I took to make the tree skirt above:

1) Gathering the Materials

I went to Walmart and purchased four different polyester/cotton blended fabrics.
  • 2 yards of light tan with printed leaves (the fabric used for the outermost circle)
  • 1 yard of plain tan fabric
  • 1 yard of gold satin fabric
  • 1 yard of plain brown fabric
I also decided to use an old white twin-sized bed sheet, that I owned already, as a base to sew all of the ruffles on top.

2) Making the Base (or Bottom) Fabric

To make the base with the old white bed sheet, I folded the bed sheet in half and drew two semi-circles, one for the outer edge and a smaller one for the tree trunk (on the fold), using a method similar to the one on this Web site and this Youtube video. Then I cut a slit from the outside to the inner hole and sewed a hem along the outside edge of the cut skirt. Finally, I hemmed the edge of the skirt.

3) Preparing the Ruffled Fabric

I cut strips of fabric, one yard width and about 6-7 inches tall and hemmed the bottom edge. I say "6-7" inches because some of the material I bought was taller than others (the gold satin fabric was from a much taller bolt of fabric than the others).

4) Sew the Outer Ring of Fabric

Then I pinned and sewed the outer ring of fabric. I let the ruffle fabric overhang the outer edge of the tree skirt by about an inch. I had to sew multiple 1-yard strips together to cover the whole outer edge.



5) Mark the Location of the Remaining Ruffled Fabric

Since my ruffling fabric was not all exactly the same width (some were about 6 inches and others were 7), I placed and marked the edge of where I wanted to sew the layers.

6) Add the Marks Around the Entire Skirt

I took a tape measure and temporarily marked (with a pencil) on the tape measure the distance between the edge of the skirt and each of the marks original marks. Then I moved and copied those marks around the edge of the skirt (using a similar method to the one I used to create a perfect circle)

6) Sew the Rest of the Ruffled Fabric

Pin and sew the rest of your fabric starting from the outside working inward to the middle of the skirt.

7) You're Done!

Voila! There you have it! Feel free to add some sparkles or your own touch.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Cook: Vegan No-Bake Pumpkin Spice Caramel Popcorn


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With the changing of the seasons, I've had a hankering for something caramel. Caramel apples, caramel popcorn, caramel caramel (you get the point). But all store bought caramel (at least locally) contains cow milk products.

So I did a little research and found a recipe I could make my own and make it milk free. Below is the result.

I only have two words of warning to keep in mind while making this.
  1. After you've mixed the vanilla and baking soda, pour the entire contents on top of the popcorn in one sweep and start mixing quick so that you get an uniform coating before everything cools.
  2. Once you have a bite, you might not stop. If you're planning on taking some to a party or making some as a gift, don't sample. :)

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Cook: Superhero Cooking Oils Series, Canola Oil as Cyclops


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According to IGN, Cyclops has lost two wives, reunited with his space pirate father, discovered two lost brothers, fought beside both a son and daughter from alternate futures, and defended The Dream as a knight might protect the Holy Grail. Through all of this, he's still standing.  He's X-Men's golden boy and mutant in charge next to Professor X (source).

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I'd like to think of canola oil as Cyclops. No drama (or recipe) is too much for this singular vision. Just check out the specs below (everything is from wikipedia).

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Canola Oil
  • Contains large amounts of monounsaturated fats, low amounts of saturated fats, and presence of Omega-3s (good for the heart, just like Mr. Univision).
  • Includes anti-inflammatory properties (so you can stay svelte like Mr. Cool).
  • Looks light and clear with relatively little flavor (ready for any action).
  • Comes highly recommended for replacing extremely unhealthy solid fats like stick butter as well as slightly less healthy oils such as soy and peanut (can be substituted in equal amounts). Professor X can't make it? Send in Cyclops. Wolverine going crazy? Send in the Cyclops. So let it be with canola oil.
  • Is created from cold-pressing the seeds of the rapeseed plant, which is a cousin to Brussels Sprouts and cabbage (mustard family). Canola oil, like Cyclops, comes from good stock.
  • Works best at 375-450 degrees F, which is good for high heat recipes including sauces, and deserts, grilling, stir-fry, and coating pans. Canola oil is calm under pressure just like the man, the one and only Cyclops.
  • Helps with leavening as well as tenderizing and moisturizing food (gentle and smooth).
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(Cyclops and canola oil have heart)

So don't be afraid to pull out the canola oil instead of corn or butter! Your body will thank you for it!

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Cook: GF French Toast

After a much needed vacation away from the world of blogging, vlogging, and addictive Facebook posting, I'm ba-ack!

I've got some great ideas for some upcoming blogs and videos, included a continuation of my series on oils, sewing and woodworking DIYs, a music video about how much I'm glad that I'm no longer eating gluten and milk products, and new recipes! I'll also be re-designing my YouTube page since they've made some changes while I've been away.

Also I think I've found a great online organizer for my recipes that I'll be embedding into my blog. So you can either read my blog for recipes like the one below, or go directly to http://www.kitchenmonki.com/blogger/allergictosittingcom.1. So keep checking back each week!

Below is a recipe for GF French Toast. Did you know that French Toast was originally created in order to make stale bread more palatable? That's why dryer bread is best for making french toast. It'll soak up more of the milk and eggs.

Using dry GF bread is essential to this recipe because GF bread tends to be more on the dense and less absorbent side right out of the bag (or out of your bread maker). Try drying your bread in an uncovered container in the fridge or leave some slices out over night.

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